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Why this one big mistake is “the kiss of death” in many relationships that could have real potential As a relationship coach who works primarily with some very successful women, there’s one big mistake I see women make over and over again in their relationships with men.I know for a fact that this problem sabotages – and kills – millions of potential relationships before they ever get off the ground – and I also know it’s 100% preventable.There’s even a great scene in the Mel Gibson movie “Braveheart” when a bunch of Scottish farmers are totally outnumbered by a far superior British army..when Mel rides up on his horse and gives them the choice to go home and be slaves or stay and fight and die as FREE Men... They charged down that hill...screaming “FREEEDOOOMM!! v=l EOOZDb Mrg EHere’s the finer distinction: neither feminine, nor masculine, is wrong here. In fact, it’s a beautiful representation of two of the finer qualities and traits in both energies or genders. Give him the freedom to feel like he can come and go and never chase him.Just show him that you’re a high-value woman with a lot of options and he’ll pursue YOU. S., I teach women how to understand and bring out the best in their men rather than suffer through their worst.If you put yourself down, focus on your flaws and your past mistakes, that’s how he will see you too.You don’t have to pretend to be someone other than yourself.When a guy says “I’m not ready for a relationship”, or “I have trust issues”, or “it’s not the right time for a relationship” – please believe him. But: Starting a new relationship when you live hundreds of miles away from each other is doomed to fail and break your heart. We are all controlled by our ego (mostly), but guys are especially tricky. In fact, a recent survey found that guys would rather be unloved and alone than unrespected.LDRs are hard enough for long-term married couples, but impossible for new couples, who know nothing about each other and are not even “officially” in love. Most of them consider these 2 feelings as the exact same. You may not be aware of it, but you can make a guy feel unrespected, completely unknowingly.
Simply put, if she connects with a man and he can leave, she is anything but safe and far too vulnerable for comfort.I teach my clients how to avoid it – and the results speak for themselves. Feminine energy’s number one need is to feel “safe” before anything else can even happen.She may feel intense attraction fueled by chemistry – but she can’t have connection unless she can set fear aside and open in vulnerability (which is another whole new topic).Here’s the problem: Simply put, men and women have two of their highest and deepest needs in absolute, total and direct conflict.As a result, it creates a real disconnect from the very beginning stages of their relationship..exact time when their relationship lacks the stability or trust to compensate for the challenges. The long-term effect of this one mistake often causes women to stack disappointment and heartbreak until eventually they begin to demonize men, or even worse, question their own value and worth.